You must take responsibility for your own decisions and not blame an organization for hoodwinking you into thinking that you must live your life differently because the end of the world is coming.
Heisenberg, you are correct.
This forum has always attacked and shouted down anyone who points out that we must take personal responsibility for our decisions and not solely blame JWs for our problems.
Its just not a popular message here, despite it being true and healthy.
Blaming the WT is easy. Identifying, accepting responsibility for, and correcting our deepest personal issues is hard.